July 2014

July 2014 -Relationships and Personal Interactions -  Addictions and Escapism

This month you can be assured that lessons will filter through areas of your life that are borne from experiences designed cosmically to help you take charge of your life. You will find yourself drawn to knowing more about your inner workings and the connection you have with your life purpose.

The truth will surface, the energy you have within will enable you to create the changes that you are envisioning now to happen. If there is one piece of advice I could give for July it's to stay centred and do not get caught up in the Leo energy need for drama or the Cancerian energy of emotional dependency . Drama will have a role to play but you are the lead role here not life and all its exteriors.

I love the energy of change it enthralls and makes me tingle however, if one has been avoiding listening to the universal calls for such you may be finding this month a little hit and miss. I say this with enough tack to make it stick. If you have been avoiding change, deluding yourself that by closing your eyes you can not see the issue or matter. If you have created an addiction for self misery or problems then expect a wake up call from the guys upstairs possibly in and around the next two weeks.

The place most hit by this energy will be relationships be this love, friendship or professional. The forecast is not bad but it is an eye opener. The energy this month enables you to look more closely at your one on one interaction. This will enable you to identify areas that may need to find balance, mend, heal or let go. 

The self image that, in which, you see yourself could be about to see a whole new person emerging. Your insecurities, fears or self illusions could rise to the surface allowing you the chance to see with your own eyes that which has created this situation or matter with your relationship areas. 

The lesson or purpose is not to become caught up in making a song and dance (drama) about that which you are seeing but instead find a way to utilise the valuable life messages that are before you. Are you still doing or accepting the same things? Are you allow conflict to follow you through your interactions? Are you comparing yourself to others? Are you addicted to trying to fix everything? Are you being authentic to you and that in which you believe in or are you a people pleaser?

This month highlights matters that have become cyclonic and out of control even if you have done an excellent job of hiding the internal turmoil. The chance to reassess your own contributions to the situation or matter will encourage you to slow down and accept that something may actually need to change. The universe is literally getting that patience stick you have been holding like a band leader marching through life and giving you a bit of snap with it. What are you waiting for? Only you can start the ball rolling or make that decision or commitment.

I know it is not easy, it is not simple but, it is possible. We create our thoughts on what happiness is. We seek companionship, love and acceptance but if you are settling for something because you feel it will get better or if you are living in the shadow of another you may find this month commands you to make a choice and stick to it. No more running along the fence and dancing with with change.

Watch your words and your actions as they are on display. As I have implied throughout this whole blog this month, the stage will be set. The choice is yours, be the lead or be the drama. If you choose to take the lead you will find the smog lift and the illusions or delusions cleared. You will find that you are back in touch with your intuitive self and your true sense or purpose. If you choose the drama than the Oscar performance will be worthy of such as the purpose of this month is to make the transitions without creating more work than you need. 

Take the lead and know as uncomfortable as some matters may be this is making progress for your betterment. You will find a few issues require a little more attention than others but at the end of the day you will be surprised at how much you can accomplish when you take the initiate to not only be honest with yourself but willing to see the truth. 

The July energy is showing you what have you made your addiction and what have you created for your escapism. The guides and angels will not do the work for you, nor will anyone else. This is your chance to have faith in your own tools and abilities in order to find the right path to correction. Why is it important to deal with this at this time? because if you were truly happy with your job, money, one on one relationships, career, goals, family and the list goes on then you would not be feeling the undercurrents.

You would not be looking at others or comparing yourself on a such merits. You would not be settling for second best in a partnership. You would not be umming and arring about changing jobs. You would not be blaming someone else for your predicament, no you would instead be taking ownership.

BOOM feel that energy hit your chest! let go of that emotional baggage that has been denying you the chance to be who you truly are. Let go of that fear of not being good enough. Let go of that fear of being deceived. Let go of that fear of not knowing what you want or how to make it happen. Put your sun glasses on because the LIGHT is so bright from that neon sign and arrow pointing at you saying " The only way is this way!" Yes, within you, just you no one else but you can create the connection you want in your life.

The best relationship you can have is the one with yourself. When you smile the whole world smiles back! When you are the reflection of the image of that which you want in your life, that which you accept and that which you truly are to the core. No one else can fill that void. No one else can be that person. Stand in your own truth and true light and be that person! Your relationships with others and life all are depicted by the relationship with the self. 

xx Cosmic Hugs xx